The Age Barrier
June 15th 2008 05:50
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Oh, it's an interesting topic! When do we start becoming cradle snatchers and grave diggers? Well, let’s take a look at those around us.
Woman A is 50 and going out with Man A who is 30. She looks perhaps 40 while he looks perhaps 46. So this, I think, can work.
Woman B is 30, Man B is 24. She looks 24, so does he. This I think could possibly work.
Woman C is 21, Man C is 50. They both look their age. I think this is totally wrong!
There are so many things to consider really. For example, it is said that a males maturity level is years behind that of a females. Though some chicks I know, comparative to their male counterparts, you'd have to disagree! So with that, would you want a younger guy? Well sexually, you'd have to say yes because as the male ages, his sexual stamina decreases dramatically, and the twenties are apparently their better years. Where as the females is said to be her thirties.
It's hard to comment unless you are really a part of the whole scenario, but for years I have always thought of there being an age barrier that we shouldn't cross. An eight year circle I guess you could say. Five years above and three years below your current age.
Since I've been back on the prowl, I've been getting a lot of attention from the younger males. It was seriously weirding me out for a while there. I started to think that everyone my age had been victims of a mass slaughter and were never to be seen again! Where were they all? Who knows?! I still don't know.
I have been declining offers from the younger boys as it just feels wrong. I can't quite explain why, but it does. Then again, I must admit, during this weekend, I finally smashed the age barrier! Haha... I'm still spinning out about it, but I caved in and went in for the kill. Nothing hardcore mind you, just a snog!
Prior to this momentous occasion, the youngest I had ever hooked up with was someone nine months younger than me. But that was within my eight year barrier, so that was ok and wasn't weird at all. In fact that was my longest lasting relationship to date. Eight years. Terrifying to think how long that lasted!
So, I guess I've expanded my age barrier now and my question for you, is this:
What is your age barrier?
What amount is too much?
What is the largest age gap you've ever experienced in your relationships or one-nighters?
And what did it take for you to break through your age barrier?
Just leave your comments below this post.
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Comment by Anonymous
My age barrier would have to be, one that is too old. As a male, I've never had a girlfriend so I'm looking for younger or at least same experience as me in terms of experience in the sexual realm, another might more readily reject me anyway for my lack of experience.
Comment by Dea
Love Crisis
Mystic Metal
Interesting answer! I don't think you'd be rejected due to lack of experience. Some woman may find that as a great challenge!
But yeah, I am beginning to think that the old saying about males being generally less mature than a woman of the same age, may be a generational thing and perhaps not relevant anymore.
For example, when I was 21, males then weren't quite as intelligent as some 21yr olds I've met recently. And it's the females who seem generally more immature. In fact, a young male friend of mine, refuses to hook up with females around his age due to their lack of maturity!
So what do the rest of you think?
Comment by slacko
Blog du slack
I want an older lady! The girls my age, most, are not mature enough. If I wanted a serious relationship, it would be very hard for me to find a girl around my age that would even know what she wanted for dinner let alone life.
I would go as high as 40 if she is holding up alright.
Lol
My dad is I think 59 and my mum 42... something close to that nature.
Comment by Dea
Love Crisis
Mystic Metal
Any young ladies want to have their say on the matter? Defend yourselves girls!
It would also seem the age barrier is more than open for the boys. Is it a sexual attraction thing or more of a maturity thing you're all after?
Should the women be flaunting? Or talking?